Cult's & why are they allowed to flourish

As my blogger profile depicts, Im inquisitive which has come from working in the Customer Service field!
If one does not ask questions, they cannot do a good job plus too from asking alot of questions, one can have opinons! In my 8 posts commencing July 31st 2009, I talked about my curious interest in the Dominant / Submissive lifestyle that is why I entitled my blog the "A curious spectator"! Perhaps D/s can fulfill the purpose to increase the level of excitement in the boring world of "vanilla sex", but the "dark images" depicted in "Bondage / Discipline" to me does not have the potential to make my dreams come true nor does it fulfill the purpose to increase the level of my excitement nor would it ever build my self-esteem as suggested by 3 way over the hill submissives! In all reality, it is an "unethical alternative lifestyle"!

Because we live in a "free society", Bondage / Discipline is considered an alternative lifestyle aka Cult!
Children are subjected to this alternative lifestyle, if their parents embrace this lifestyle! Also words / ideas / pictures are more powerful than perhaps anyone suspects, and once deeply engraved in a child's mind, they are not easily eradicated! In all candor, I would certaintly not want anyone who teaches my child to be associated with this alternative lifestyle!