Why do women bash each other - is it because they are jealous or is there another reason?
The other reason: On Monday of this week the 16th of November 2009 I happened to be watching the dynamics in a Pennsylvania chatroom, when a friend came into the room - I will call her Marie! Immediately another chatterer opens up the topic of conversation with - I hope Mabus does not bolt me for the following but I must tell everyone what is bothering me. Mabus was just an ordinary chatter who was holding the bolt - meaning if 'unsavory' people came into the room, he had the option of leaving them in or kicking them out! To continue: I will call the chatter by her real name Melanie [a floozy who cheats behind her husband, has 2 young children and was just recently cleared of bribery, etc charges] Citygal [the screen name I use to chat] and Chippygal37 [Marie] it has come to my attention that you 2 have slandered me - a chatter friend has sent me the chatroom logs. First of all, when Melanie was arrested I was not online - hadn't been for 2 months!. I had received in an email the newspaper account of why she was arrested and why her bail was set at $125,000.00. Frankly, not knowing this woman but we did occassionally chat in the room and in Instant Messages and we more or less live close by I was shocked! I do remember saying to the room that only Melanie knows the truth of what happened and I feel sorry for her children.
What Marie may have said, Im not privy to that conversation but for Melanie to accuse me in the forum of an open chatroom instead of taking it to an Email is an Injustice!.. Not only has she not shut up about what she considers as 'slander' but she keeps bringing it up usually when both Marie and me are not in the chatroom.. Case in point last night, Wednesday the 18th of Nov. 2009 after 11:00pm, she immediately started in with the bashing! How do we know, a chatterer by the name of Barbie informed us that our mutual friend was talking about us again! As I sit here at my computer composing this post, I wonder why does she do it - is she so insecure at 44? Or does she resent us for being 'stand up women' who do the right thing - whom do not inpune their character - because without Integrity - one is up the creek!!
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Methinks you should stick to blogging.
MrCharleston: me thinks you are right!
I think it all comes down to insecurity. That's why women bash each other and judge so easily. We're all the same, but we're competition, and deep down in our DNA we just wanna smash the competition :)
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