Ive also been reading the blogs of Dominants/Submissives such as: A Kind Dom & his followup Uncle Agony; In between black and white; daughter of the sea and oatmealgirl. There is much in what selkie laments that Ive felt about this very 'taboo lifestyle'. Then this morning 8/2/09 I read some of oatmealgirl's posts from July. The idea that a submissive would allow her sadistic Master flog her labia and/or bite it all in the feelings of pleasure is what I do not understand. The submissive is living, breathing at his 'pleasure' - where's the 'self-esteem' and/or 'dignity' of this 60 year old woman?. Im 60 years young too but Id never, ever allow any Man to treat me in the fashion her SadisticMaster does, even if we were just doing a D/s scene. How can one feel this treatment is personal growth? Too me this is Abuse! As Tristan, another Dominant whose blogs Ive read, and who commented to one of my comments to A Kind Dom's blog entitled "The insecurities of a Dom" said; I could be just a bit too Assertive to ever consider being called Submissive! I guess that is why from March of 2003 until January 2006 I walked away from even considering the D/s lifestyle. To be continued on 8/3/09.
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i am thinking Christina that perhaps you should be a little less judgmental when you read personal - from the heart - blogs.
You are very much entitled to your opinion - don't get me wrong - but you don't have the right to yell ABUSE - anymore than anyone has the right to yell FIRE in a crowded theater.
i really am sick to death of trying to explain to newbies or the curious that what we do in our lives is not for the weak of heart nor do we endorse it for everyone.
i am a masochist.
Sir is a Sadist.
Together we make sweet music.
You might be interested in a blog i am going to post this coming Friday - entitled BDSM or Abuse... there is contrary to what you believe a BIG difference.
regards
morningstar (owned by Warren)
http://wtsubbie.blogspot.com/
Oh I most certainly have every right to yell ABUSE because that is exactly what you, a submissive and all the others plus the Dominants delve into. Canada, your Government should shutdown the bdsm lifestyle with no answers as to why!!!
Furthermore, in all candor I would'nt want someone of your calibre teaching my children!!
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