This morning on morningstar's blog alias littleone's the Journey she dedicated her August 7, 2009 post about BDSM versus Abuse to me! There was a comment that jumped out at me about self-esteem - that s/m build self-esteem - yeah right, NOT!
I have a chatfriend [Mentor] who not only has dabbled in Hedonism but also D/s and who like littleone has many degrees hanging up on his wall; he counsels abused men and women. I broached the subject of what she wrote about and this was his comment. Well, Christina you certaintly have a penchant for finding 'crazies' on the Internet! I told him about my blog and that I had been chastised by littleone for having an opinion on what I thought was Abuse - the carving of the figure 8 by a sadistic Master onto his sub's buttocks! His comment - well it sounds as though the multilatee and the multilator aren't working with a full deck of cards. Case closed!!!!!
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Christina-
I have to say hmmm.
While I respect that you have something to say and ideas that differ from my own, I feel the need to give you a small piece of knowledge that I have attained over my experiences with D/s and BDSM.
For as many people as there are on the earth there are different forms of kink.
I personally don't understand foot/hand fetishes... that doesn't mean that I am going to call someone crazy for wanting to suck on toes/fingers. Granted I would never want to carve a number into my submissive's flesh, but then we aren't into that - what we do however we keep behind closed doors, but that is our choice, and our kink.
Live and let live is my motto, and I would suggest to you try not to judge others so harshly.
No anonymous whomever you are , why hide? - live & let live is not exactly the best reasoning to take when dealing with bdsm lifestyle!
It ought to be shut down with no answers as to why!!!
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